Wedding Rehearsals

Yesterday, I was asked by a client to share some pearls of wisdom on wedding rehearsals. I have attended my share of these events as it is an excellent tool for me to acquaint myself with all the players so to speak for the upcoming wedding day. Sort of connect the names with faces. Like anything else in life, some rehearsals go much better than others.

Here are some of my "pearls of wisdom".
ALWAYS be on time, I cannot stress that enough and make certain that this includes the entire bridal party, even the parents and any little people involved in the ceremony. Everyone is excited to see one another and are anticipating the social aspect of this event, but it really is important to see exactly how things will play out and each person's role will be explained at this time.

Rehearsals have a way of calming the bride and groom down before their big day. The more you know; the more relaxed you are. Trust the people in charge (minister, church lady, event planner, etc.), they have done this a million times before and really do know what they are doing.

Usually a quick run thru is all that is allowed and necessary. During the actual ceremony there will be lots of assistance just in case anyone forgets what they are supposed to be doing and when and where.

After the ceremony rehearsal, at a predetermined location, there is the sharing of food and libation (possibly, hopefully) and generally the mingling of bridal party, families and if budget permits any out of town guests. Usually it is at this time when the bride and groom show their gratitude to family and friends; perhaps in the way of a toast and presentation of gifts to their bridal party attendants and parents. My advice to the bride and groom is: This is a very fun night, your adrenaline is pumping BUT tomorrow is the big day AND you don't want to be over tired OR hung over. Please know when to say good night and see you at the wedding!