A few Don'ts with your I Do's

There is no better example of attention to detail than that of a military wedding. Protocol dominates the planning process and when executed everything is perfectly orchestrated. After 25 years as an Air Force officer's wife I should know.

So often the details of the reception become the total focus of planning the wedding day and often times not enough emphasis is placed upon the wedding ceremony itself. If it weren't for the ceremony, wouldn't it be just another party? I love a good party as much as the next person, but equal thought and effort should go into the importance of this ceremony with the exchange of marital vows.

There is infinite latitude in planning a meaningful ceremony; whether it be in a church, on the beach, at the reception site or even city hall! Flowers, candles, music, officiant, guests and processional are all integral parts of the whole. Symbols of joy, unity and love are in abundance. Research! or pick your event planners brain to create the most memorable ceremony representing all of your thoughts and emotions on this very special day.

Don't let the party become more important than the ceremony.
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Favors for Guests

Searching for that perfect keepsake for your guests? Why not consider a donation to your favorite charity? A lot of money is spent on favors that usually become a "throw away". Something to consider would be to use the budgeted monies as a donation to a favorite charity. There are a multitude of charities in need of this type of generous gesture. Cancer research, education, animal rescue, the environment, the arts, just to name a few. An explanation concerning this can be displayed in the entry area of the event or at each individual table. Guests appreciate this thoughtfulness.